Family Constellations
Healing the Past. Transforming the Present. Reconnecting with the Flow of Life.
Family Constellation is a powerful therapeutic method that helps uncover and resolve deep entanglements within your family of origin or current relationships. These systemic patterns, often inherited unconsciously, can keep us stuck in emotional pain, conflict, illness, or limitation — even across generations.
Through solution-oriented interventions, the process brings about profound insight and understanding. What follows is often a deep sense of inner peace, clarity, and restored connection — a return to the natural flow of love within the family system.
What Is Family Constellations?
Systemic Family Therapy was first developed by German psychotherapist Bert Hellinger, who saw individuals not as isolated beings, but as part of a greater family system.
In this approach:
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We explore how unspoken family laws and ancestral dynamics shape our lives
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Often, suffering arises when these hidden loyalties or “archaic laws” are violated
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These entanglements are not rebellion, but acts of blind love and loyalty
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The healing begins when we see, honour, and restore what was excluded or hidden
How Does It Work?
In a group setting, the client chooses representatives from the group to stand in for family members. These representatives are positioned intuitively in the space — forming a living map of the client’s system.
Remarkably, the representatives often report:
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Thoughts, feelings, and physical sensations that mirror those of real family members
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A sense of “knowing” or connection to the system they are representing
This phenomenon points to the existence of a systemic energy field (often called the “Knowing Field”), where essential information about the family system is accessible beyond conscious awareness.
Constellations can also be done in individual sessions using:
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Cushions
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Floor markers
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Figurines or symbolic objects
What Emerges in a Constellation?
A constellation can:
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Reveal unconscious dynamics, unresolved trauma, or excluded family members
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Uncover transgenerational patterns that may be impacting present life
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Show entanglements with parents, ancestors, or former partners
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Highlight healing movements that want to emerge
With the guidance of a trained facilitator, healing interventions are gently introduced. These may include:
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Bringing in missing or forgotten family members
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Facilitating meaningful dialogue with healing sentences
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Restoring natural order and belonging within the system
The goal is a new, more balanced internal image — one where each person is in their rightful place, and the flow of love can resume.
A Spiritual & Transformational Dimension
Beyond the psychological or familial, Family Constellations also reconnect us with a larger field of unity. As one moves through personal and systemic healing, they often begin to sense a connection to something greater — a shared human experience and a deeper order of existence.
“A constellation reveals unconscious collective laws operating within a family system and helps us fall in tune with higher laws that take us beyond the personal — into a dimension where we are all one.”
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